They aren’t “preferred pronouns” any more. They are “correct pronouns”. Please keep up with the program.
I’m not one who usually defends Christians, but could it be that Jesus (i.e. God in the flesh) was not a women.
And finally, your conflating correct pronouns with plural pronouns used for a definite singular case. Most people are fine with he/she based is appearance. The they/them thing is a whole different matter.